[IT'S] ACTUALLY PSYCHOTIC. [IT'S] INSANELY JEALOUS. [IT'S] IRRATIONAL, AND I'M SCARED OF [IT]: A viewing of
The Social Network this weekend did nothing to change my mind about any of the reasons, both good and bad, that I have for never having used Facebook as a social medium. That's not to say that I haven't signed up for Facebook, though, because I have. I did it because I have to use it for some job-related research. So I gave Facebook my name, sex, and birth date, and nothing else (except that I've fed it the names of some people I've tried to locate, again, for work and not personal reasons).
Because I'm not a Facebook power-user, I haven't followed the news about its privacy issues too closely, but from what I recall, it has focused on Facebook's harvesting of the data you exchange over the site -- your list of friends, the links you exchange, and the personal data you enter yourself -- for profit. That's bad, but in a what-did-you-expect kind of way. It's no different from what the banks do.
I can't shake the feeling that Facebook is engaged in a more ominous kind of data gathering, though. As I said, I've given Facebook nothing more than my name (I'm aware of a half-dozen or so other people in the US with the same name) and birth date. The searches I've run are work-related, and do not include my own friends. Yet Facebook has proven remarkably adept in identifying and suggesting that I friend people I knew in high school (and before), in law school, and from this very blog. It couldn't have guessed these names from the information I've exchanged over Facebook itself, since I haven't exchanged anything potentially relevant. It couldn't have guessed these names from "blogs and news media" from which Facebook admits to supplementing user profiles, because I blog under a pseudonym and am, sadly, unfamous.
But the names it has identified bear a striking resemblance to the names of people in my (supposedly private, secure) Outlook email account. Facebook knows very few of my college friends, with whom I have mostly lost touch. Yet it frequently identifies as a potential friend the crazy person who emails every lawyer in San Francisco to see who can take his paranoid anti-FBI litigation. It hasn't tried to put me in touch with any of the people for whom I've searched using Facebook, but it often tries to get me to friend a woman with the same name as a client contact of mine.
I don't want to say that I don't have a problem with a site that harvests information I exchange over it. I have a much greater problem, though, with a site that reads my email without my permission -- particularly if it's a site that admits in the past to harvesting and selling data. I'm a lawyer who works with a lot of documents subject to varying legal confidentiality requirements, some out of the ordinary even for lawyers accustomed to the attorney-client privilege. I have never consented to Facebook viewing my emails (even to/from) information, and I never would.
Is anybody else out there really skeeved out by this? Or have I completely missed the boat on Facebook's friend-suggestion algorithm?